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[Problem]
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A tall, attractive man came into the insurance office where I work to buy an auto insurance policy. I haven¡¯t talked with men outside of my church in a long time, so I was nervous. I thought my heart would explode from beating so fast.
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He will be coming back in a couple of weeks, and I¡¯m afraid if I don¡¯t ask him out, I will regret it. I don¡¯t know how to approach him or ask a guy out at all. Help! - NERVOUS OUT WEST
[Advice]
±× ³²ÀÚ ºÐ²²¼ À¯ºÎ³²Àϼöµµ ÀÖÀ¸´Ï ½Ã°£À» °¡Áö°í õõÈ÷ Çϼ¼¿ä. ±× ºÐ²²¼ ¿ÀÀü¿¡ ¿À½Å´Ù¸é, À½½Ä ¸ÀÀÌ ÁÁÀº ·¹½ºÅä¶ûÀÌ ¸ÖÁö ¾ÊÀº °÷¿¡ ÀÖÀ¸´Ï º¸¿©ÁÖ°í ½Í´Ù°í °¡º±°Ô ¸»À» °Ç³× º¸¼¼¿ä. ±× ºÐ²²¼ ¸¸¾à¿¡ ´Ê°Ô ¿À½Å´Ù¸é ¡®Ä¿ÇÇ ÇÑ ÀÜ ÇϽǷ¡¿ä?¡¯¶ó´Â ÈçÇÑ ¸»·Î ´ëȸ¦ ½ÃÀÛÇØ º¸¼¼¿ä. µÑ Áß Çϳª´Â ±×¿Í ´ëȸ¦ ÇÒ ±âȸ¸¦ µ¶ÀÚ ºÐ²² µå¸± °ÍÀÌ°í Áö³ªÄ¡°Ô ³ë°ñÀûÀÌÁö ¾Ê°Ô ±× ºÐ¿¡ ´ëÇØ ¾Ë°Ô µÇ½Ç °Å¿¡¿ä.
The man may be married, so take it slow. If he comes in before noon, casually mention there¡¯s a restaurant not far away that serves good food and offer to show him. If he comes in later, use the old ¡°want to grab a cup of coffee?¡± gambit. Either of these will give you a chance to talk with him and find out more about him without being overly obvious.
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* ask sb out = ~¿¡°Ô µ¥ÀÌÆ®¸¦ ½ÅûÇÏ´Ù
He's too shy to ask her out.
(±×´Â ³Ê¹« ¼Ò½ÉÇؼ ±×³à¿¡°Ô µ¥ÀÌÆ® ½ÅûÀ» ¸ø ÇÑ´Ù.)
* gambit (´ëÈ µîÀÇ Ãʹݿ¡ ¿ì¼¼¸¦ È®º¸Çϱâ À§ÇÑ) ¼ö[¸»/Çൿ]
(= an act or remark that is calculated to gain an advantage, especially at the outset of a situation)
e.g.) His resignation was a tactical gambit. ±×ÀÇ »çÀÓÀº Àü·«ÀûÀÎ ÃÊ¹Ý ÇÑ ¼ö¿´´Ù.
* obvious = (´«À¸·Î º¸°Å³ª ÀÌÇØÇϱ⿡) ºÐ¸íÇÑ[¸í¹éÇÑ]