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[Debate/Åä·Ð] (HM-012) Husband£§s cocktail time is too much and too loose
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[Problem]

Àú´Â Áö³ª°£ ¼¼¿ù µ¿¾È ´ÙÇàÈ÷ ¼º°øÀ» ÇÏ¿´°í °è¼ÓÇؼ­ ÀúÈñ ºÎºÎ¿¡°Ô ¾È¶ôÇÑ »ýÈ°¹æ½ÄÀ» Á¦°øÇÏ°í ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. Àú´Â °ð 74¹ø° »ýÀÏÀ» ¸ÂÀÌÇÒ °ÍÀ̸ç, ÀúÀÇ °í±³½ÃÀý ¾ÖÀΰú °áÈ¥ÇÑ Áö 55ÁÖ³âÀÌ µË´Ï´Ù.  
I have been blessed with success over the years and continue to provide a comfortable lifestyle for my wife and me. I will be celebrating my 74th birthday soon, and 55 years of marriage to my high school sweetheart.

Àú´Â ¹Ù»Û ÇϷ縦 º¸³»°í ±Í°¡Çϸé, ´Ü°ñ ´º½º ¹æ¼ÛÀ» µéÀ¸¸ç ¾É¾Æ¼­ ³Ë³ËÇÑ Ä¬Å×ÀÏ µÎ ÀÜÀ» ¸¶½Ã´Â °ÍÀ» Áñ±é´Ï´Ù. Àú´Â ±×³¯ÀÇ Á¤Ä¡Àû »ç°Ç¿¡ ´ëÇÑ Á¦ ÀÇ°ßÀ» ¿ËÈ£ÇØ¿ä. ±×¸®°í Ç×»ó ¿¹¿Ü ¾øÀÌ ¾Æ³»¿Í °¡Á·¿¡ ´ëÇÑ Èì¸ð¸¦ ¸»·Î Ç¥ÇöÇÏ°í, ¾Æ³»°¡ ¾ó¸¶³ª ¿¹»ÛÁö ±×¸®°í Á¦°¡ ¾ó¸¶³ª ¾Æ³»¸¦ »ç¶ûÇÏ´ÂÁö Ç¥ÇöÇÕ´Ï´Ù.   
When I come home from a busy day, I enjoy sitting down and having two generous cocktails while I listen to my favorite news station. I espouse my views on the political events of the day. And always, without exception, I verbalize my adoration for my wife and our family, and express how beautiful my wife is and how much I love her.

¾Æ³»´Â Á¦°¡ ¼ú ¶§¹®¿¡ Á¦ ÀÇ°ß°ú ³íÆòÀÌ »ê¸¸ÇØÁ®¼­ ±×·±Áö ¾à°£ Â¥ÁõÀ» ³»°Ô µË´Ï´Ù. ¾Æ³»´Â Á¦°¡ ¸ÅÀÏ ¹ã¸¶´Ù Àú³á½Ä»ç Àü¿¡ ¼ú ¸¶½Ã´Â °ÍÀ» ±×¸¸µÎ¾úÀ¸¸é ÇØ¿ä. Àú´Â µÎ Àܸ¸ ¸¶½Ã±â ¶§¹®¿¡ ÇØ·ÓÁö ¾Ê´Ù°í »ý°¢ÇÕ´Ï´Ù. Á¦ ³ªÀÌ¿¡ ±×·² ÀÚ°ÝÀÌ ÀÖ´Ù°í »ý°¢ÇÏÁö¸¸, Àú´Â ¾Æ³»°¡ ¾ËÄÚ¿ÃÁßµ¶ÀÚ¿Í °áÈ¥Çß´Ù´Â °¨Á¤ÀÌ µéÁö ¾Ê°Ô ÇÏ°í ½Í½À´Ï´Ù. Á¦°¡ ¾î¶»°Ô Çϸé ÁÁ°Ú½À´Ï±î? - ĬÅ×Àϵµ ¾Æ¸Þ¸®Ä­ µå¸²ÀÎ µ¶ÀÚ
My wife becomes somewhat annoyed because I get loose with my opinions and comments because of the alcohol. She wants me to quit drinking every night before dinner. I feel there's no harm because I have only two drinks. At my age, I feel entitled, but I don't want to make my wife feel like she is married to an alcoholic. What do you suggest I do? - MY AMERICAN DREAM INCLUDES COCKTAILS

[Advice]

¾Æ¸Þ¸®Ä­ µå¸² µ¶ÀÚ´Ô²²: ù ´Ü°è·Î, ¸¸ÀÏ °ü¸®°¡ °¡´ÉÇϽôٸé ÀÏÁÖÀÏÂë ¼úÀ» ²÷¾î º¸½Ã°Å³ª, ÀÛÀº ÀÜÀ¸·Î ÇÑ Àܸ¸ ¸¶½Ã´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î ÁÖ·®À» ÁÙ¿© º¸¼¼¿ä. µ¶ÀÚ´Ô²²¼­ ÇÏ·ç¿¡ ¡®³Ë³ËÇÏ°Ô¡¯ µÎ ÀÜÀ» ¼ÒºñÇÏ½Å´Ù°í ¸»¾¸ÇÏ½Ç ¶§, Àú´Â ¾ó¸¶³ª ³Ë³ËÇÏ¸ç ¹«¾ùÀ¸·Î ±× ¾çÀ» ÃøÁ¤ÇϽôÂÁö ±Ã±ÝÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀ» ¼ö ¾ø³×¿ä. µ¶ÀÚ´Ô²²¼­ ÀþÀ¸¼ÌÀ» ¶§¿¡´Â ºÎÀÛ¿ë ¾øÀÌ ³Ë³ËÇÑ µÎ ÀÜÀ» ¸¶½Ç ¼ö ÀÖ¾úÀ»Áö ¸ð¸£°ÚÀ¸³ª, »ç¶÷ÀÌ ¿¬·ÎÇØÁö¸é (74¼¼¸é ¡®¿¬·Î¡¯ÀÇ ÀÚ°ÝÀÌ ÀÖÀ» °É¿ä) ¾ËÄÚ¿ÃÀ» ´ë»ç½ÃÅ°Áöµµ ¸øÇØ¿ä.
DEAR AMERICAN DREAM: For openers, try laying off the sauce for a week or so ¦¡ if you can manage it ¦¡ or cut back to one drink in a smaller glass. When you say you consume two "generous" drinks a day, I can't help but wonder how generous and what you're using to measure. While you may have been able to drink two generous drinks when you were younger with no negative effects, as folks get older (and 74 would qualify as "older"), they don't metabolize alcohol as well.

¹®Á¦ À½ÁÖ¶ó´Â ½ÅÈ£ÀÇ Çϳª´Â ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷µé°ú ¹®Á¦¸¦ ÀÏÀ¸Å°±â ½ÃÀÛÇÒ ¶§ÀÔ´Ï´Ù. ¶Ç Çϳª´Â È£Àü¼ºÀε¥ ¸¸ÀÏ µ¶ÀÚ´Ô²²¼­ ´º½º ÇÁ·Î±×·¥À» ½ÃûÇÏ½Ç ¶§ ±×·¸°Ô µÇ½Å´Ù¸é, ¾Æ³»ºÐ²²¼­ È­¸¦ ³»½Ã´Â °ÍÀ» Å¿ÇÏ½Ç ¼ö ¾ø¾î¿ä. ±×¸®°í µ¶ÀÚ´Ô²²¼­ ¼ú±â¿îÀÌ ÀÖ´Â µ¿¾È¿¡ Åä·ÎÇϽô ¾ÖÁ¤Ç¥Çö¿¡ ´ëÇØ ¸»¾¸µå¸®¸é, ´ÞÄÞÇÑ ¸»ÀÏÁö ¸ô¶óµµ Á¤¸»ÀÌÁö ¿©ÀÚµéÀº ¼ú ÃëÇÏÁö ¾ÊÀº ³²ÀÚÇÑÅ× µè´Â °ÍÀ» ´õ ÁÁ¾ÆÇÑ´ä´Ï´Ù.  
One of the signs of problem drinking is when it starts to cause problems with others. Another is belligerence, and if that's the way you become as you listen to your news programs, you can't blame your wife for being upset. And as to the endearments you utter while under the influence ¦¡ while they may be sweet, take it from me that women much prefer to hear them from men who are sober.

[¾îÈÖ & Ç¥Çö]

* espouse (°Ý½Ä) (ÁÖÀÇ, Á¤Ã¥ µîÀ») ¿ËÈ£[ÁöÁö]ÇÏ´Ù
(= to believe in and support a political, religious etc. idea or philosophy)
e.g.) They espoused the notion of equal opportunity for all in education.
±×µéÀº ±³À°¿¡ À־ ¸ðµç »ç¶÷ÀÇ ±âȸ ÆòµîÀ̶ó´Â °³³äÀ» ¿ËÈ£Çß´Ù.

* verbalize (°Ý½Ä) ¸»·Î Ç¥ÇöÇÏ´Ù[³ªÅ¸³»´Ù] (= to express something in words)
e.g.) He's a real genius but he has difficulty verbalizing his ideas.
±×´Â Á¤¸» õÀçÀÌÁö¸¸ »ý°¢À» ¸»·Î Ç¥ÇöÇÏ´Â µ¥ ¾î·Á¿òÀ» ´À³¤´Ù.

* for openers (¾î¶² ÀýÂ÷ÀÇ) ù[½ÃÀÛ] ºÎºÐÀ¸·Î
e.g.) Tell us your name for openers. ¸ÕÀú À̸§ºÎÅÍ ¸»ÇØ º¸¾Æ¶ó.
e.g.) What did we say for openers? ¸ÕÀú ¹¹¶ó°í ¸»Çß½À´Ï±î?  

* lay off the sauce ±ÝÁÖÇÏ´Ù (= to stop having alcoholic drinks)
e.g.) My dad promised to my mom that he would lay off the sauce for a week.
¾Æºü´Â ¾ö¸¶¿¡°Ô ÀÏÁÖÀÏ µ¿¾È ±ÝÁÖÇÏ°Ú´Ù°í ¾à¼ÓÇß´Ù.  

* belligerence È£Àü¼º, ÅõÀZ (=being very unfriendly and mean, and wanting to argue or fight)
e.g.) I can¡¯t stand his belligerence. ³ª´Â ±×ÀÇ È£Àü¼ºÀ» ÂüÀ» ¼ö ¾ø´Ù.

* endearment ¾ÖÁ¤À» ´ãÀº[Ç¥ÇöÇÏ´Â] ¸»[Ç¥Çö] (= an action or word that expresses your love for someone)
e.g.) They were whispering endearments to each other. ±×µéÀº ¼­·Î¿¡°Ô »ç¶ûÀÇ ¸»À» ¼Ó»èÀÌ°í ÀÖ¾ú´Ù.

* take it from me (that¡¦) (¡¦ÀÓÀº) Á¤¸»ÀÌ´Ù [³» ¸»À» ¹Ï¾îµµ µÈ´Ù]
e.g.) Take it from me¡ªhe'll be a millionaire before he's 30. Á¤¸»À̾ß. ±×´Â ¼­¸¥ÀÌ µÇ±â Àü¿¡ ¹é¸¸ÀåÀÚ°¡ µÉ °Å¾ß.
(= to show your true feelings openly), °¨Á¤À» ¼û±âÁö ¸øÇÏ´Ù (= cannot hide one's feelings)