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[Debate/Åä·Ð] (HM-027) Tears come easier when sadness is more distant
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[Problem]

Àú´Â 73¼¼ÀÇ ³²ÀÚÀÔ´Ï´Ù. Áö³­ ¼ö³â°£ Àú´Â Ã¥À̳ª ÅÚ·¹ºñÀü¿¡¼­, ƯÈ÷ ¾î¸°À̵é°ú °ü·ÃµÈ, ½½ÇÁ°í ÀÎÁ¤ÀÌ ³ÑÄ¡´Â À̾߱⸦ Á¢ÇÏ°í ¿ïÀ½À» ÅͶ߷Ⱦî¿ä.
I'm a 73-year-old man. Over the years I have sometimes cried over sad, heartwarming stories in books or on TV, especially those involving children.

Àú ¿ª½Ã »ç¶ûÇÏ´Â »ç¶÷µéÀ» ¸¹ÀÌ ÀÒ¾úÀ¸¸ç, ÀÌ·¯ÇÑ »ó½Ç¿¡ ´Ù¸¥ ´©±¸¿Í ¸¶Âù°¡Áö·Î ½½ÆâÁö¸¸, ÀüÇô ´«¹°À» È긱 ¼ö ¾ø¾ú´ä´Ï´Ù.
I have also lost several loved ones, and although I was as sad about these losses as anyone else, I was never able to shed tears over it.

Àú´Â ¿Ö Àú¿Í ȤÀº Á¦ »î ¼ÓÀÇ ´©±¸¿Íµµ °ü·ÃÀÌ ¾ø´Â ÀÏ¿¡´Â ¿ï¸é¼­, Á¦°¡ »ç¶ûÇÏ´Â ´©±º°¡°¡ Á×¾úÀ» ¶§¿¡´Â ¿ï ¼ö ¾ø´Â °Ç°¡¿ä? Á¦°Ô ¹«½¼ À߸øÀÌ¶óµµ ÀÖ³ª¿ä? - À§Ä¡Å¸ÀÇ ´«¹°À» È긮Áö ¾Ê´Â µ¶ÀÚ
Why do I cry over things that don't pertain to me or anybody in my life, but can't when someone I love passes away? Is something wrong with me? - TEARLESS IN WICHITA

[Advice]

´«¹°À» È긮Áö ¾ÊÀ¸½Ã´Â µ¶ÀÚ´Ô²²: ´«¹°Àº īŸ¸£½Ã½º°¡ µÉ ¼ö ÀÖÁö¸¸, Á×À½ ¾Õ¿¡¼­ »ç¶÷µéÀº ¼­·Î ´Ù¸¥ ¹æ½ÄÀÇ ¹ÝÀÀÀ» º¸ÀÔ´Ï´Ù. ºñ·Ï ¿ïÀ½ÀÌ À§¾ÈÀÌ µÉ ¼öµµ ÀÖÁö¸¸, ¸ðµç »ç¶÷ÀÌ ¶§ ¸ÂÃß¾î ¿ï ¼ö ÀÖ´Â °ÍÀÌ ¾Æ´Ï¿¡¿ä. ¶§·Î´Â °¡½¿¼ÓÀÇ ³³µ¢ÀÌó·³ ±×Àú ÁøÇÑ ¡®¾ÆÇÄ¡¯¸¸ ÀÖ¾î¿ä. µ¶ÀÚ´ÔÀÇ °æ¿ì, Àå·Êº¸´Ù ½½Ç ¿µÈ­°¡ ¿ì´Â µ¥ ´ú °íÅ뽺·´°Å³ª ´ú À§ÇùÀûÀÏÁöµµ ¸ð¸£°Ú½À´Ï´Ù. ¸¶Ä§³» ´«¹°ÀÌ ³ª¿Ã ¶§¸é (´ë°³ ¹º°¡ ´ú Áß¿äÇÑ ÀÏ¿¡ ´ëÇØ), ±×°ÍÀÌ ¾ï´­·È¾ú±â ¶§¹®¿¡ ±â´ëÇÏ´Â °Íº¸´Ù ÈξÀ ´õ ¸¹Àº ¾çÀÇ ´«¹°ÀÌ ³ª¿Ã ¼ö ÀÖ°ÚÁö¿ä.
DEAR TEARLESS: Tears can be cathartic, but people react to death in different ways. Not everyone can cry on cue, even if it would be a relief to be able to. Sometimes there's just a deep "ache," like lead in one's chest. In your case, it may be less painful or threatening to cry over a sad movie than a funeral. When tears finally come (usually over something less significant), they can be more copious than one would expect because they have been bottled up.

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* on cue ¸¶Ä§ ¶§¸ÂÃß¾î (= happening or done at exactly the right moment)
e.g.) Where is that boy? As if on cue, Simon appeared in the doorway.
¡°±× ³²ÀÚ ¾Ö ¾îµð ÀÖ¾î¿ä?¡± ¸¶Ä§ ¶§¸ÂÃß¾î »çÀ̸ÕÀÌ ¹®°£¿¡ ³ªÅ¸³µ´Ù.

* copious ¾öû³­ (¾çÀÇ), ¹æ´ëÇÑ (= existing or being produced in large quantities)
e.g.) The region has had copious snow in the last few days. ±× Áö¿ª¿¡´Â Áö³­ ¸çÄ¥°£ ´«ÀÌ ¾ÆÁÖ ¸¹ÀÌ ¿Ô´Ù.
 
* bottled up ¿ïÀûÇÑ, °¨Á¤À» ¾ï´©¸£´Â (= deliberately not allowing yourself to show a strong feeling or emotion)
e.g.) It's best to express them, not keep them bottled up. ±×°ÍµéÀ» ¹¯¾îµÎÁö ¸»°í Ç¥ÇöÇÏ´Â °ÍÀÌ °¡Àå ÁÁ´Ù.