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[Debate/Åä·Ð] (HM-059) Divergent career paths lead couple in different directions
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[Problem]

ÀúÀÇ µ¿¹ÝÀÚ ¡®¾Øµå·ù¡¯¿Í Àú´Â 4 ³â°£ µ¿°ÅÇØ¿Ô½À´Ï´Ù. Àú´Â °íµîÇб³ ±³»çÀÌ°í ±×ÀÌ´Â Å« ¹éÈ­Á¡¿¡¼­ ÀÏÇÏ°í ÀÖ¾î¿ä. ¾Øµå·ù´Â ´Ã Ç×°ø±â ½Â¹«¿øÀÌ µÇ°í ½Í¾î ÇßÀ¸¸ç ÀÌÁ¦ ÇÑ Áö¿ª Ç×°ø»ç¿¡ Ãë¾÷Çϱâ À§ÇÑ ÀÎÅÍºä ±âȸ°¡ »ý°å½À´Ï´Ù. ±×ÀÌ°¡ ±× ÀÏÀÚ¸®¸¦ ±¸ÇÏ¸é ´ë¼­¾ç ¿¬¾È ÁߺΠÁö¿ªÀ¸·Î ÁÖ¼Ò¸¦ ÀÌÀüÇØ¾ß ÇÒ °ÍÀÔ´Ï´Ù. 
My partner, "Andrew," and I have been together for four years. I'm a high school teacher, and he works for a major department store. Andrew has always wanted to be a flight attendant and now has the opportunity to interview for a position with a regional carrier. If he gets the job, he will have to relocate to the mid-Atlantic.

Àú´Â ±×ÀÌ°¡ Àڱ⠲ÞÀ» ÂѾƼ­ ¼º°øÇϱ⸦ ¿øÇÏ¸ç ±×À̸¦ µÞ¹Ù¶óÁöÇÏ°í ½ÍÁö¸¸, ´çÀåÀº °æÁ¦ÀûÀ¸·Î Çö Á÷ÀåÀ» ±×¸¸ µÎ°í ±×À̸¦ µû¶ó °¥ ÀÔÀåÀÌ ¾Æ´Õ´Ï´Ù. ºñ·Ï Á¦°¡ ÁÁÀº ±³»çÀÌÁö¸¸ Á¦°¡ Ãß±¸ÇØ¾ß ÇÒ Ãß°¡ ±³À°ÀÌ ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. Àú´Â ÀúÈñ ÇаúÀå°ú ÇÔ²² ¾à°£ÀÇ ÇØ¿Ü ¿¬±¸°¡ Æ÷ÇÔµÈ 5°³³â °èȹÀ» ÇÔ²² ÃßÁøÇØ ¿Ô¾î¿ä. Àú´Â Àå·¡¿¡ Áö¿ªÀü¹®´ëÇп¡¼­ °¡¸£Ä¡±æ Èñ¸ÁÇÕ´Ï´Ù. ÇÏÁö¸¸ ¾Øµå·ù°¡ ±Ù¹«ÇÏ´Â °÷°ú °¡±î¿î µ¥¿¡ Ãë¾÷ÀÌ µÇÁö ¾ÊÀ¸¸é ¾î¶»°Ô ÇÏÁÒ? ÀÌ ¸ðµç ¹®Á¦¸¦ ¾î¶»°Ô ó¸®ÇØ¾ß Çմϱî? - ¸Þ»çÃß¼¼Ã÷ ÁÖÀÇ ¾û¸ÁÀÌ µÈ ³²ÀÚ  
I want him to follow his dreams and be successful, and I want to support him, but right now I'm not in a position financially to leave my job and go with him. Although I'm a good teacher, there is additional education I need to pursue, and I have worked with my department chair on a five-year plan that includes some study abroad. I hope to teach at a community college in the future, but what if I'm not hired close to where Andrew works? How do I deal with all this? - MESSED UP MAN IN MASSACHUSETTS

[Advice]

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DEAR MESSED UP MAN: You recognize that some challenges lie ahead for you and Andrew if you are both going to live your dreams and achieve your full potential. You say you have worked out a five-year plan that includes study abroad. In a year or two, it could have been Andrew writing me about the same insecurities you are feeling.

º°°Å´Â µ¶ÀÚ´Ô Ä¿Çà µÎ ºÐÀÌ ¸ðµÎ ±×·± ÀÏÀÌ ÀϾµµ·Ï ±×³É µÎÁö ¾Ê°Ú´Ù°í °á½ÉÇÑ´Ù¸é, ²À µÎ ºÐÀÇ °ü°è°¡ ³¡³­´Ù´Â °ÍÀ» ÀǹÌÇÒ ÇÊ¿ä´Â ¾ø¾î¿ä. µÎ ºÐÀº ½º½º·Î¿¡°Ô ÀÛÀº ¹ÏÀ½À» °¡Áú Ã¥ÀÓÀÌ ÀÖ½À´Ï´Ù. ÇÑ ¹ø ½ÃµµÇØ º¸¼¼¿ä. ¡®ÀϾ °ÍÀº ÀϾ°í¾ß ¸¿´Ï´Ù¡¯
Separation doesn't have to mean the end of your relationship if you are both determined not to let it. You owe it to yourselves to have a little faith, give it a try, and "what will be will be."

[¾îÈÖ & Ç¥Çö]

* divergent ºÐ±â(ÝÂÐ÷)ÇÏ´Â; °¥¶óÁö´Â (opp. convergent)
e.g.) She and I hold divergent opinions. ±× ¿©ÀÚ¿Í ³ª´Â ¼­·Î ´Ù¸¥ ÀÇ°ßÀ» ÁÖÀåÇß´Ù.
 
* relocate  (ƯÈ÷ ±â¾÷, ±Ù·ÎÀÚµé, ÁÖ¼Ò, Àå¼Ò) ÀÌÀü[À̵¿]ÇÏ´Ù[½ÃÅ°´Ù] 
e.g.) The firm may be forced to relocate from New York to Stanford. 
±× ȸ»ç´Â ´º¿å¿¡¼­ ½ºÅÄÆÛµå·Î ÀÌÀüÇØ¾ß ÇÒÁöµµ ¸ð¸¥´Ù.
 
* mess someone up Å« È¥¶õ¿¡ ºüÁö°Ô ÇÏ´Ù (= to make someone have emotional or mental problem) 
e.g.) I've really messed up this time. ³»°¡ À̹ø¿¡´Â ÁøÂ¥ ´Ù ¸ÁÃÄ ¹ö·È¾î.
 
* work out ~À» °èȹÇØ[»ý°¢ÇØ] ³»´Ù 
(= to think carefully about how you are going to something and plan a good way of doing)
e.g.) I've worked out a new way of doing it. ³»°¡ ±×°ÍÀ» ÇÏ´Â »õ·Î¿î ¹æ¹ýÀ» »ý°¢ÇØ ³Â´Ù.
 
* What will be, will be. (Àλý) ÀϾ ÀÏÀº ÀϾ°í¾ß ¸¸´Ù.